But it will take a lot of effort to overcome natural obstacles. There is always a positive element in the Aquarius / Cancer relationship: Aquarius has esteem for Cancer, and Cancer has admiration for Aquarius; one is pleased by his honesty and his qualities of heart, and the other by his elegance and resourcefulness. But this positive element is far from enough to counterbalance the enormous difficulties that stand in the way of the natives. Cancer does not know how to play. He always takes the letter literally and reacts very strongly. Aquarius is a specialist in jokes and good words. This very often results in misunderstandings that can cause dramas. This situation is generally hopeless, as Aquarius and Cancer are not ready to change their behavior. Having a tender heart and always refusing to believe in evil, Cancer can live a perpetual Calvary, since fidelity is the last thing Aquarius can think of. Although he has the esteem and compassion for Cancer, he will probably not be able to resist the urge to flirt. But Cancer will choose to continue to suffer rather than seek separation.
The Aquarian woman is not predisposed to frigidity, far from it. But she often keeps a cool head even in the heart of the most disheveled frolics, as if she wanted to observe and analyze his slightest feelings and stay in control of the situation. It is more cerebral than instinctive, more intellectual than sensual. It has little sense of convention. In the sexual field more than elsewhere, she willingly lends herself to all sorts of experiments, even to those which are generally regarded as pure perversions. It is provocative, but in reality it likes to be original and take advantage of the unexpected, the unknown. The Aquarius woman has a low sexual temperament. Her needs are relatively limited, and she may even endure some abstinence. But, on the other hand, when her desire is awake, she suddenly becomes very impatient and accepts very badly that she is resisting him. In addition, it is subject to sudden runaways, and then all dikes can be broken!
Aquarius man's behavior is constant: nothing is constant. Endowed with an overflowing imagination, he has an inexhaustible repertoire of erotic fantasies. He is never short of ideas to redo a thing the same way. For its partners, it is a box of surprises - stunning and pleasant surprises, of course. His intuitions are lightning towards his partner of the moment. He feels them at the same time, knows how to fill them deliciously and never in the same way. It seems that he is telephatically connected to the impulses of the other. Of all men, the Aquarius man is the least misogynist. It is not only for the equality of the sexes, but also for the legality of orgasms. He is perfectly talented to bring his partners to supreme enjoyment at the same time as him. For this native, simultaneous orgasm is not a myth, as many sexologists claim, but a reality: it would be enough to know how to do it! He is also able to provoke in his partners repeated orgasms.
The sexuality of the woman Cancer can only flourish if it is in emotional agreement with her partner, only if she feels loved and be the object of attention and tenderness. Her attachment to the paternal image is so strong that she is always looking, more or less unconsciously, for a solid shoulder, a protective arm. She is endowed with a capricious and changing eroticism. It can be an insatiable day, then the next day vaguely indifferent, according to the variations of its unstable moods. Hypersensitive to moods, the Cancer woman can also easily indulge without restraint when she is confident, only to block completely as soon as something is bothering or disturbing. It takes a lot of skill to lead to the total expression of his sexuality. The Cancer woman has an overflowing imagination. His fantasies are among the craziest with, sometimes, an incestuous coloring. However, she is far from being a sexual pervert; she only has this great ability to feel female to the tips of her nails when she is in perfect confidence with a partner.
If there was to be a perfect sexual partner, it would probably be closer to the Cancer man. It is full of tenderness, affection, romance, and also know-how. In his reports, he gives himself without reserve - with sincerity, innocence and passion. But one could blame him for preferring quantity to quality, because it is very pleasing to women, and they do not resist him. They will also attach themselves to this expert and indefatigable lover that he is. He is an inveterate slugger whose reputation is undeniable. However, to please the man Cancer in bed is difficult and requires a consummate art of seduction and eroticization. Since there is always something big about him, he wants his partners to be gentle, enveloping, reassuring and almost maternal. Besides, he will propose a thousand little games where he will be happy to pamper and pamper. His fantasies are a bit masochistic and he does not hate to be harshly bullied. In his sexual encounters, the Cancer man progresses slowly but surely from the stage of considerate lover and somewhat timid to that of alcove Rambo. And it is usually with gentle violence and healthy animality that ends what began as a fairy tale.