Only the will pushed to the highest degree can save this combination from disaster, and still it is not always a sufficient condition. The natives could at the very least maintain bonds of friendship without heat and without brilliance, but should not think of love or the common life, because here what awaits them: "The loves die by the disgust, and the 'forgetfulness bury them' (La Bruyère). Neither Aquarius nor Libra will be able to make a real effort of understanding. They will not disturb their neighbors by arguments and household scenes, of course, but it's a safe bet that they will shut themselves up in an unbearable silence, each behaving as if the other did not exist. To unblock the situation, it will be absolutely necessary for both to make a communication effort. Chuang-tzu said, "The best use of speech is to keep quiet." But exactly the opposite is true in this case. The dialogue will be essential to avoid this couple a painful sinking.
The Aquarian woman is not predisposed to frigidity, far from it. But she often keeps a cool head even in the heart of the most disheveled frolics, as if she wanted to observe and analyze his slightest feelings and stay in control of the situation. It is more cerebral than instinctive, more intellectual than sensual. It has little sense of convention. In the sexual field more than elsewhere, she willingly lends herself to all sorts of experiments, even to those which are generally regarded as pure perversions. It is provocative, but in reality it likes to be original and take advantage of the unexpected, the unknown. The Aquarius woman has a low sexual temperament. Her needs are relatively limited, and she may even endure some abstinence. But, on the other hand, when her desire is awake, she suddenly becomes very impatient and accepts very badly that she is resisting him. In addition, it is subject to sudden runaways, and then all dikes can be broken!
Aquarius man's behavior is constant: nothing is constant. Endowed with an overflowing imagination, he has an inexhaustible repertoire of erotic fantasies. He is never short of ideas to redo a thing the same way. For its partners, it is a box of surprises - stunning and pleasant surprises, of course. His intuitions are lightning towards his partner of the moment. He feels them at the same time, knows how to fill them deliciously and never in the same way. It seems that he is telephatically connected to the impulses of the other. Of all men, the Aquarius man is the least misogynist. It is not only for the equality of the sexes, but also for the legality of orgasms. He is perfectly talented to bring his partners to supreme enjoyment at the same time as him. For this native, simultaneous orgasm is not a myth, as many sexologists claim, but a reality: it would be enough to know how to do it! He is also able to provoke in his partners repeated orgasms.
The Libra woman can find the fulfillment of the senses only in harmony and balance. Any constraint, all abruptness, all dissonance and all disorder are apt to cool his ardor and to deprive him of the desire for a sexual experience. In extreme cases, it could become irremediably frigid. The Libra woman is endowed with a sexual temperament of good quality - neither too weak nor excessive. Here again, the key word, to qualify his libido, is "balance" - balance between sex and feelings, between animality and refinement, between impulses and love games. The atmospheres count for her: the decor, the quality of lights, colors, smells ... With its highly developed aesthetic sense, the Libra woman will have a hard time finding fullness in the arms of a partner she finds ugly. But his conception of ugliness is not ordinary: it may not be physical ugliness, but simply behavioral ugliness - and machismo is part of this ugliness. Thus, a man who is little favored in his physical appearance may find favor in the eyes of this woman if he is polite, courteous, attentive, gallant, well dressed and well maintained, perhaps even a little dandy.
The Libra Man loves for the idea he has of it. Her preference is for very feminine women, a little mysterious, a little inaccessible, perhaps even proud or dangerous. It is with such women that he knows the hottest antics. It is generally believed that the power of the Libra man is not very assertive. It's a mistake, and you have to look at things differently. Indeed, if the Libra man is unparalleled seducer, it is not binding: he hates to be urgent, to force the hand, to charge the hussar. He only gets bolder when he feels that the circumstances are really appropriate. He is not manly in the sense that he is not a domineering male, but a gallant and tactful man; he often even waits for advances. Thus, even in the heat of the moment, the Libra man continues to make love to his partner of the moment. Through delicate allusions and discreet questions, he diligently inquires about the wishes and desires of the other. He does not dry up his praise and his marks of appreciation until his partner, satisfied and satisfied, fell asleep in his arms.