The first appears, in the eyes of the second, superficial and tainted with meanness. Gemini, in turn, considers Libra as lazy and utopian. But they will not lack reasons to appreciate one another. For the pair Gemini / Balance, the chances of happiness will be strictly dependent on the ability of the lovers to minimize their differences and estimate what one will find good in the other. It will be, in other words, a question of goodwill. This is nothing special, because could we succeed in anything without a certain amount of goodwill?
The Libra woman can find the fulfillment of the senses only in harmony and balance. Any constraint, all abruptness, all dissonance and all disorder are apt to cool his ardor and to deprive him of the desire for a sexual experience. In extreme cases, it could become irremediably frigid. The Libra woman is endowed with a sexual temperament of good quality - neither too weak nor excessive. Here again, the key word, to qualify his libido, is "balance" - balance between sex and feelings, between animality and refinement, between impulses and love games. The atmospheres count for her: the decor, the quality of lights, colors, smells ... With its highly developed aesthetic sense, the Libra woman will have a hard time finding fullness in the arms of a partner she finds ugly. But his conception of ugliness is not ordinary: it may not be physical ugliness, but simply behavioral ugliness - and machismo is part of this ugliness. Thus, a man who is little favored in his physical appearance may find favor in the eyes of this woman if he is polite, courteous, attentive, gallant, well dressed and well maintained, perhaps even a little dandy.
The Libra Man loves for the idea he has of it. Her preference is for very feminine women, a little mysterious, a little inaccessible, perhaps even proud or dangerous. It is with such women that he knows the hottest antics. It is generally believed that the power of the Libra man is not very assertive. It's a mistake, and you have to look at things differently. Indeed, if the Libra man is unparalleled seducer, it is not binding: he hates to be urgent, to force the hand, to charge the hussar. He only gets bolder when he feels that the circumstances are really appropriate. He is not manly in the sense that he is not a domineering male, but a gallant and tactful man; he often even waits for advances. Thus, even in the heat of the moment, the Libra man continues to make love to his partner of the moment. Through delicate allusions and discreet questions, he diligently inquires about the wishes and desires of the other. He does not dry up his praise and his marks of appreciation until his partner, satisfied and satisfied, fell asleep in his arms.
The eroticism of the Gemini woman is linked to dialogue and communication. He passes above all by his intellect and the spirit of the game, not by the thrills of his flesh. It seems that the Gemini woman is an eternal teenager, more curious about the sex of the enjoyment of pleasure. Some preparation, some awakening work are needed before each fireworks. The Gemini woman has a rather weak sexuality: sex for sex and sensual drunkenness in herself would not be very attractive to her if they did not fit into the context of intellectual satisfaction. His critical sense still awake could even lead him to find the follies of the body somewhat ridiculous and suspicious, hence its relative reluctance and sometimes timidity. However, if intelligence, speech and the use of fantasies are at stake, his sexuality will be deeply stimulated. And then she will be able as much as any other woman to experience himalayas of pleasure.
One could say that the sex of the Gemini man is in his head. Indeed, he tends to bring everything back to play, and sexual pleasure only makes sense to him if he can have fun. He is aerial, intellectual. In his sexual encounters, what matters most to him are the subtle preliminaries, playful frolics, postlude like a picnic! He does not disdain gadgets and other instruments of pleasure that abound sex shops. He wants to try everything, but is quick to give up what does not bring him more. This is also true of sexual techniques and particularly coital positions. As he is endowed with an overflowing imagination, he is never short of variations and innovations in erotic matters. As you can guess, the Gemini man is never in a hurry to get down to business. He likes to stroll, wander, enjoying seeing himself and seeing his partner evolve. Sometimes, he stops in the heart of the action to chat, to exchange ideas and cuddly recipes, before continuing the antics where he had suspended them!