The objective conditions being balanced, it is the insight and good will of the partners that will tip the balance to the good side. The Virgin and Libra can be happy together on the express condition that Libra demonstrate absolute fidelity. This condition is rarely fulfilled because Libra does not have a sense of fidelity and does not give any moral color to her incarcerations in love. The Virgin, conformist and bourgeois as he is, will not bear any misbehavior on the part of his partner. If one of the lovers has to make concessions, it will certainly not be the Virgin. Even if Libra complies with strict conduct, not all problems are solved. The modesty of the Virgin - her refusal to express her feelings - will remain one of the main obstacles to overcome. He will have to learn that it is not enough to love, but that you still have to show your love. "Friendship can be dumb, and it must be almost always: love, on the contrary, must be eloquent ... and one can never say too much that one loves" (Madeleine de Scudéry).
The Libra woman can find the fulfillment of the senses only in harmony and balance. Any constraint, all abruptness, all dissonance and all disorder are apt to cool his ardor and to deprive him of the desire for a sexual experience. In extreme cases, it could become irremediably frigid. The Libra woman is endowed with a sexual temperament of good quality - neither too weak nor excessive. Here again, the key word, to qualify his libido, is "balance" - balance between sex and feelings, between animality and refinement, between impulses and love games. The atmospheres count for her: the decor, the quality of lights, colors, smells ... With its highly developed aesthetic sense, the Libra woman will have a hard time finding fullness in the arms of a partner she finds ugly. But his conception of ugliness is not ordinary: it may not be physical ugliness, but simply behavioral ugliness - and machismo is part of this ugliness. Thus, a man who is little favored in his physical appearance may find favor in the eyes of this woman if he is polite, courteous, attentive, gallant, well dressed and well maintained, perhaps even a little dandy.
The Libra Man loves for the idea he has of it. Her preference is for very feminine women, a little mysterious, a little inaccessible, perhaps even proud or dangerous. It is with such women that he knows the hottest antics. It is generally believed that the power of the Libra man is not very assertive. It's a mistake, and you have to look at things differently. Indeed, if the Libra man is unparalleled seducer, it is not binding: he hates to be urgent, to force the hand, to charge the hussar. He only gets bolder when he feels that the circumstances are really appropriate. He is not manly in the sense that he is not a domineering male, but a gallant and tactful man; he often even waits for advances. Thus, even in the heat of the moment, the Libra man continues to make love to his partner of the moment. Through delicate allusions and discreet questions, he diligently inquires about the wishes and desires of the other. He does not dry up his praise and his marks of appreciation until his partner, satisfied and satisfied, fell asleep in his arms.
The Virgo woman, without being suspicious of her sexual urges, tends to observe and analyze them. She is more inclined to want to understand what is happening in her than to indulge in her sensations, and that can cool down or restrain her impulses. She is endowed with a strong underground sexuality. Taken between her powerful needs and her desire to stay in control, she tends to be suspicious of others and also of herself. But as long as she meets a partner who knows how to secure her and establish complete complicity, she will forget her fears and will then let her strong impulses express herself freely. The Virgo woman instinctively looks for the aesthetic side of things. Nothing displeases her more than vulgarity or obscenity. If she has had a wrong sexual education or inappropriate sexual experiences, she could be led to consider sexuality as something outrageous or outrageous, and thus show more or less marked tendencies to frigidity.
The sexuality of the Virgo man is almost entirely at the orders of his spirit. One could say that he has a cerebral sexuality, because he wants to understand everything, control everything, being afraid to lose himself by letting himself go to his impulses. Yet, these are strong enough and could, when they are unbridled, damn the most virtuous woman in the world. The Virgo man does not like to talk much about sex, and the expression of his sexuality is always marked by a certain reserve. His modesty, his love of discretion, certainly do not favor an open and easy communication, to which he refuses, moreover, of all his fibers. It will take a lot of tricks to discover the fire under the ice. But the business is worth it. The Virgo man is rather conventional and prosaic in his sexual urges. Innovations and games are of little interest to him. As he is always so busy observing and analyzing his emotions and reactions, the manifestations of his eroticism can sometimes be reduced to a simple physical exercise!