But they are both extremely sensual good living, which is a significant advantage. How could they be indifferent or hostile to each other after tasting together, by candlelight, a buxom dinner of oysters, foie gras, grilled steak, and creamy strawberries? whipped cream, all washed down with a good wine and champagne? The biggest feature of this combination is the complicit sensuality of the partners. It is this sensuality that will alleviate the sharpness of all the problems likely to threaten the Gemini / Cancer union.
The sexuality of the woman Cancer can only flourish if it is in emotional agreement with her partner, only if she feels loved and be the object of attention and tenderness. Her attachment to the paternal image is so strong that she is always looking, more or less unconsciously, for a solid shoulder, a protective arm. She is endowed with a capricious and changing eroticism. It can be an insatiable day, then the next day vaguely indifferent, according to the variations of its unstable moods. Hypersensitive to moods, the Cancer woman can also easily indulge without restraint when she is confident, only to block completely as soon as something is bothering or disturbing. It takes a lot of skill to lead to the total expression of his sexuality. The Cancer woman has an overflowing imagination. His fantasies are among the craziest with, sometimes, an incestuous coloring. However, she is far from being a sexual pervert; she only has this great ability to feel female to the tips of her nails when she is in perfect confidence with a partner.
If there was to be a perfect sexual partner, it would probably be closer to the Cancer man. It is full of tenderness, affection, romance, and also know-how. In his reports, he gives himself without reserve - with sincerity, innocence and passion. But one could blame him for preferring quantity to quality, because it is very pleasing to women, and they do not resist him. They will also attach themselves to this expert and indefatigable lover that he is. He is an inveterate slugger whose reputation is undeniable. However, to please the man Cancer in bed is difficult and requires a consummate art of seduction and eroticization. Since there is always something big about him, he wants his partners to be gentle, enveloping, reassuring and almost maternal. Besides, he will propose a thousand little games where he will be happy to pamper and pamper. His fantasies are a bit masochistic and he does not hate to be harshly bullied. In his sexual encounters, the Cancer man progresses slowly but surely from the stage of considerate lover and somewhat timid to that of alcove Rambo. And it is usually with gentle violence and healthy animality that ends what began as a fairy tale.
The eroticism of the Gemini woman is linked to dialogue and communication. He passes above all by his intellect and the spirit of the game, not by the thrills of his flesh. It seems that the Gemini woman is an eternal teenager, more curious about the sex of the enjoyment of pleasure. Some preparation, some awakening work are needed before each fireworks. The Gemini woman has a rather weak sexuality: sex for sex and sensual drunkenness in herself would not be very attractive to her if they did not fit into the context of intellectual satisfaction. His critical sense still awake could even lead him to find the follies of the body somewhat ridiculous and suspicious, hence its relative reluctance and sometimes timidity. However, if intelligence, speech and the use of fantasies are at stake, his sexuality will be deeply stimulated. And then she will be able as much as any other woman to experience himalayas of pleasure.
One could say that the sex of the Gemini man is in his head. Indeed, he tends to bring everything back to play, and sexual pleasure only makes sense to him if he can have fun. He is aerial, intellectual. In his sexual encounters, what matters most to him are the subtle preliminaries, playful frolics, postlude like a picnic! He does not disdain gadgets and other instruments of pleasure that abound sex shops. He wants to try everything, but is quick to give up what does not bring him more. This is also true of sexual techniques and particularly coital positions. As he is endowed with an overflowing imagination, he is never short of variations and innovations in erotic matters. As you can guess, the Gemini man is never in a hurry to get down to business. He likes to stroll, wander, enjoying seeing himself and seeing his partner evolve. Sometimes, he stops in the heart of the action to chat, to exchange ideas and cuddly recipes, before continuing the antics where he had suspended them!