Some find there differences of character to advise caution, others base their optimism on the natural goodness of Leo and especially Cancer. Anyway, the success of the union Lion / Cancer, it seems, is something quite easily achievable. What is Leo looking for in life? Compliments, more compliments, always compliments. He does not always deserve them, in spite of his brilliant qualities; but Cancer, full of goodness and kindness, will not pay attention to it. He will make every effort to strengthen his partner in his esteem, making him believe that he is the most wonderful of men. It follows here - rather unconsciously indeed - one of the fundamental rules of the art of loving, that of lavishing compliments in all forms. It is not necessary that such compliments be justified by reality, but only by the desire to love - because "love lives mainly of illusion", as Van Minh said. The Lion will not remain insensitive to the marks of affection that will show him his partner. He will try by all means to make him happy.
For the female Leo, sexuality is one of the most accomplished forms of life and self-expression. Thus, not only does she suffer from practically no inhibition and does not tolerate any taboo, but she is also very actively seeking out erotic satisfactions, to such an extent that some people would describe her - but wrongly - as a nymphomaniac, a praying mantis, or even phallic woman. The Lion woman is endowed with a powerful sensuality, warm and invigorating, and of a very strong sexual magnetism, which could make the happiness of the most demanding man. But even when she is seized by the most primary impulses, the Lion woman wants to keep her rank, to stay in control of herself and the situation. That's why she seems to have a little stilted side. She needs to be admired not only for her spirit but also for her body. Any reluctance on the part of her sexual partners could therefore be interpreted by her as a refusal or even an insult. She is also fond of preliminaries and prefers to go straight to the point.
Ardent lover, very attached to a certain erotic and aesthetic quality of the sexual relationship, the Lion man gives himself generously, and does a kind of good deed when he deigns to give his favors to a lady Of his choice. Let us say rather that he lends himself, with kindness and true attention to the being with which he makes a report. Royal in his behavior, he radiates like the sun. And if he burns sometimes, he is sincerely sorry, because he hates to hurt. There is no conscious sadism in him. But we must not disappoint him. The Lion man is rather domineering in bed, as he is in life in general. He likes to lead the game, manage and dose the rise of pleasure, sometimes suspending it to savor again and lingering on the plateau before plunging into the orgasmic abyss. But it also welcomes passionately the initiatives of its partners; However, he will not fail to take them back in hand to direct them towards a direction and a rhythm of his own choice. A lover of pomp, he has a predilection for the gleaming side of jewels: he likes his assaults to be accompanied by the clatter of gold links and jewels.
The sexuality of the woman Cancer can only flourish if it is in emotional agreement with her partner, only if she feels loved and be the object of attention and tenderness. Her attachment to the paternal image is so strong that she is always looking, more or less unconsciously, for a solid shoulder, a protective arm. She is endowed with a capricious and changing eroticism. It can be an insatiable day, then the next day vaguely indifferent, according to the variations of its unstable moods. Hypersensitive to moods, the Cancer woman can also easily indulge without restraint when she is confident, only to block completely as soon as something is bothering or disturbing. It takes a lot of skill to lead to the total expression of his sexuality. The Cancer woman has an overflowing imagination. His fantasies are among the craziest with, sometimes, an incestuous coloring. However, she is far from being a sexual pervert; she only has this great ability to feel female to the tips of her nails when she is in perfect confidence with a partner.
If there was to be a perfect sexual partner, it would probably be closer to the Cancer man. It is full of tenderness, affection, romance, and also know-how. In his reports, he gives himself without reserve - with sincerity, innocence and passion. But one could blame him for preferring quantity to quality, because it is very pleasing to women, and they do not resist him. They will also attach themselves to this expert and indefatigable lover that he is. He is an inveterate slugger whose reputation is undeniable. However, to please the man Cancer in bed is difficult and requires a consummate art of seduction and eroticization. Since there is always something big about him, he wants his partners to be gentle, enveloping, reassuring and almost maternal. Besides, he will propose a thousand little games where he will be happy to pamper and pamper. His fantasies are a bit masochistic and he does not hate to be harshly bullied. In his sexual encounters, the Cancer man progresses slowly but surely from the stage of considerate lover and somewhat timid to that of alcove Rambo. And it is usually with gentle violence and healthy animality that ends what began as a fairy tale.