There is usually some competition between them, discreet and devious but real, likely to undermine the vitality of their passion and seriously threaten the building. Fortunately, they can often, over time, find some common ground.The Aries will certainly try to dominate his partner the Virgo. But the Virgo, in spite of her natural affability, will not let him. He will react with force and cunning to be respected and appreciate at its true value. His position will have more weight if he pursues a professional career. Lovers will only be happy the day they accept each other as equals.
The Aries woman is generally sexually fulfilled. It is easily externalized into physical love. This externalization very often gives her incomparable well-being, both physical and mental, and that is why she actively seeks it, without complex or false modesty. She expresses her sexuality in a way that is both simple and volcanic. Simple, because it does not need complicated situations, frills more or less elaborate to achieve pleasure. Volcanic, because it has a very strong temperament, without being restrained by unconscious inhibitions or concrete considerations. Aries woman's libido is easily aroused: her appetite is always present, and her eroticism swells quickly until the final explosion. When she wants, she tries to take action without waiting. His sexual ways are direct, unambiguous, perhaps a little prehistoric, but eminently haunting, and are a real treat for those who appreciate them.
The Aries man has a very strong sexual impulse. When he desires, he does not know and does not want to wait. Moreover, he must feel exhausted at the end of the action to be fully happy. And still he slightly exceeds his limits. However, passionate lover he is, he may encounter power problems. His "breakdowns" are quite common because he is a nervous person who does not know how to take care of himself. Sometimes it's madness for a week, then flat calm for a month. Aries man's sexual performance is often too brief for his partners. He is a little too likely to go on the assault and behave like a hussar. All women do not like this style, eminently manly though! But if he sometimes lacks delicacy and sensitivity, however he surrenders unreservedly to the passion of passion and feelings. He knows how to give himself totally, and this is a treat for those who know how to appreciate it.
The Virgo woman, without being suspicious of her sexual urges, tends to observe and analyze them. She is more inclined to want to understand what is happening in her than to indulge in her sensations, and that can cool down or restrain her impulses. She is endowed with a strong underground sexuality. Taken between her powerful needs and her desire to stay in control, she tends to be suspicious of others and also of herself. But as long as she meets a partner who knows how to secure her and establish complete complicity, she will forget her fears and will then let her strong impulses express herself freely. The Virgo woman instinctively looks for the aesthetic side of things. Nothing displeases her more than vulgarity or obscenity. If she has had a wrong sexual education or inappropriate sexual experiences, she could be led to consider sexuality as something outrageous or outrageous, and thus show more or less marked tendencies to frigidity.
The sexuality of the Virgo man is almost entirely at the orders of his spirit. One could say that he has a cerebral sexuality, because he wants to understand everything, control everything, being afraid to lose himself by letting himself go to his impulses. Yet, these are strong enough and could, when they are unbridled, damn the most virtuous woman in the world. The Virgo man does not like to talk much about sex, and the expression of his sexuality is always marked by a certain reserve. His modesty, his love of discretion, certainly do not favor an open and easy communication, to which he refuses, moreover, of all his fibers. It will take a lot of tricks to discover the fire under the ice. But the business is worth it. The Virgo man is rather conventional and prosaic in his sexual urges. Innovations and games are of little interest to him. As he is always so busy observing and analyzing his emotions and reactions, the manifestations of his eroticism can sometimes be reduced to a simple physical exercise!