Specialists, for this reason, are almost unanimous in discouraging the love and union between Libra and Cancer. The common life that the natives would lead could only be hell, and one could blame the other until death. The risks being so great, it would be foolish to embark on this union, even if at the beginning we have the best will in the world. Cancer will feel crushed, will lose all confidence in itself and all the joy of living. Libra will not be happy either. This deplorable situation will not be solely attributable to the Libra that it would be unfair to accuse of malice or bad faith. It will rather be the result, logical and inescapable, of a convergence of various painful circumstances. First there will be the fact that "often in love, if it is not one, it is the other who constitutes a tyrant" (Van Minh); there will also be the disturbing personality of Libra and the malleability of Cancer. The evil will be almost without remedy. Libra will reign as a lord without real satisfaction, and Cancer will vegetate in the shadow of his partner. There will be little hope of dialogue and intimacy.
The Libra woman can find the fulfillment of the senses only in harmony and balance. Any constraint, all abruptness, all dissonance and all disorder are apt to cool his ardor and to deprive him of the desire for a sexual experience. In extreme cases, it could become irremediably frigid. The Libra woman is endowed with a sexual temperament of good quality - neither too weak nor excessive. Here again, the key word, to qualify his libido, is "balance" - balance between sex and feelings, between animality and refinement, between impulses and love games. The atmospheres count for her: the decor, the quality of lights, colors, smells ... With its highly developed aesthetic sense, the Libra woman will have a hard time finding fullness in the arms of a partner she finds ugly. But his conception of ugliness is not ordinary: it may not be physical ugliness, but simply behavioral ugliness - and machismo is part of this ugliness. Thus, a man who is little favored in his physical appearance may find favor in the eyes of this woman if he is polite, courteous, attentive, gallant, well dressed and well maintained, perhaps even a little dandy.
The Libra Man loves for the idea he has of it. Her preference is for very feminine women, a little mysterious, a little inaccessible, perhaps even proud or dangerous. It is with such women that he knows the hottest antics. It is generally believed that the power of the Libra man is not very assertive. It's a mistake, and you have to look at things differently. Indeed, if the Libra man is unparalleled seducer, it is not binding: he hates to be urgent, to force the hand, to charge the hussar. He only gets bolder when he feels that the circumstances are really appropriate. He is not manly in the sense that he is not a domineering male, but a gallant and tactful man; he often even waits for advances. Thus, even in the heat of the moment, the Libra man continues to make love to his partner of the moment. Through delicate allusions and discreet questions, he diligently inquires about the wishes and desires of the other. He does not dry up his praise and his marks of appreciation until his partner, satisfied and satisfied, fell asleep in his arms.
The sexuality of the woman Cancer can only flourish if it is in emotional agreement with her partner, only if she feels loved and be the object of attention and tenderness. Her attachment to the paternal image is so strong that she is always looking, more or less unconsciously, for a solid shoulder, a protective arm. She is endowed with a capricious and changing eroticism. It can be an insatiable day, then the next day vaguely indifferent, according to the variations of its unstable moods. Hypersensitive to moods, the Cancer woman can also easily indulge without restraint when she is confident, only to block completely as soon as something is bothering or disturbing. It takes a lot of skill to lead to the total expression of his sexuality. The Cancer woman has an overflowing imagination. His fantasies are among the craziest with, sometimes, an incestuous coloring. However, she is far from being a sexual pervert; she only has this great ability to feel female to the tips of her nails when she is in perfect confidence with a partner.
If there was to be a perfect sexual partner, it would probably be closer to the Cancer man. It is full of tenderness, affection, romance, and also know-how. In his reports, he gives himself without reserve - with sincerity, innocence and passion. But one could blame him for preferring quantity to quality, because it is very pleasing to women, and they do not resist him. They will also attach themselves to this expert and indefatigable lover that he is. He is an inveterate slugger whose reputation is undeniable. However, to please the man Cancer in bed is difficult and requires a consummate art of seduction and eroticization. Since there is always something big about him, he wants his partners to be gentle, enveloping, reassuring and almost maternal. Besides, he will propose a thousand little games where he will be happy to pamper and pamper. His fantasies are a bit masochistic and he does not hate to be harshly bullied. In his sexual encounters, the Cancer man progresses slowly but surely from the stage of considerate lover and somewhat timid to that of alcove Rambo. And it is usually with gentle violence and healthy animality that ends what began as a fairy tale.