Of great utility in life in general, this faculty to perceive is a handicap in the field of love and makes "in the spouses all bored and tired" (La Fontaine). It is no secret that good understanding needs idealization, and that idealization needs fog. Aquarius and Capricorn run the constant risk of annoying each other because they can be mysterious to each other. They will therefore have an interest in not telling each other, in doing each a different job, in having each a certain private life. Frequent absences will also be advisable. The bottom line is that they always have to understand each other and guess at each other. The day they no longer need to understand each other or to guess, their love will crumble. Aquarius and Capricorn are both cynics, which is their strength but also their weakness. Their life together would be sad if they could not show a little tolerance and a sense of humor. A conflict can always arise between Aquarius and Capricorn if they are not careful. The second being an idealist, and the first a realist, they will find it difficult to agree on certain things, especially with regard to the couple's relationship with family and friends on both sides. Here again, tolerance and compromise should be the golden rule of their conduct.
The Aquarian woman is not predisposed to frigidity, far from it. But she often keeps a cool head even in the heart of the most disheveled frolics, as if she wanted to observe and analyze his slightest feelings and stay in control of the situation. It is more cerebral than instinctive, more intellectual than sensual. It has little sense of convention. In the sexual field more than elsewhere, she willingly lends herself to all sorts of experiments, even to those which are generally regarded as pure perversions. It is provocative, but in reality it likes to be original and take advantage of the unexpected, the unknown. The Aquarius woman has a low sexual temperament. Her needs are relatively limited, and she may even endure some abstinence. But, on the other hand, when her desire is awake, she suddenly becomes very impatient and accepts very badly that she is resisting him. In addition, it is subject to sudden runaways, and then all dikes can be broken!
Aquarius man's behavior is constant: nothing is constant. Endowed with an overflowing imagination, he has an inexhaustible repertoire of erotic fantasies. He is never short of ideas to redo a thing the same way. For its partners, it is a box of surprises - stunning and pleasant surprises, of course. His intuitions are lightning towards his partner of the moment. He feels them at the same time, knows how to fill them deliciously and never in the same way. It seems that he is telephatically connected to the impulses of the other. Of all men, the Aquarius man is the least misogynist. It is not only for the equality of the sexes, but also for the legality of orgasms. He is perfectly talented to bring his partners to supreme enjoyment at the same time as him. For this native, simultaneous orgasm is not a myth, as many sexologists claim, but a reality: it would be enough to know how to do it! He is also able to provoke in his partners repeated orgasms.
The Capricorn woman always shows a certain reserve with respect to sexuality, which can result in shyness. This tendency may be all the more marked if the native has received inadequate or erroneous sex education. Even in our age of sexual frankness, she most likely has inhibitions and doubts about herself. But despite appearances, she is basically endowed with a powerful sexual temperament. This can put her in an uncomfortable position, because she is between a certain discomfort with sexuality and demanding needs. It can make him feel guilty, or tend to view sexuality as something degrading. In any case, the Capricorn woman is usually slow to adapt to sexual activity, and even more so to take a liking to it. He needs a certain period of learning and complicity with a partner before he can give free rein to his libido. Any abruptness, any brutality, any lack of tact and benevolence can provoke in her a reflex of refusal and even frigidity.
In the sexual domain as in many others, the Capricorn man has reserved and timid airs. He is rather clumsy and lacks self-confidence. Yet, he has a powerful libido, which only wants to express itself in all its vigor. Hence a sense of guilt that he often feels and has trouble controlling. That being said, once the Capricorn man has overcome his reluctance, nothing will stop him. With a caring and understanding partner, he will quickly move from the inactivity of a swaddled mummy to the unleashing of the werewolf on a full moon night! The Capricorn man loves to make love without saying a word. But his burning gaze, fiery kisses and feverish caresses replace many compliments and encouragements. During each meeting, the Capricorn man does not hate the resting places where, closely entwined, the partners let themselves go to a soft torpor. Then suddenly, without warning, he wakes up and shows a breathtaking energy boost and unrestrained virility.