The degree of instability will depend on their ability to solve their difficulties. A strong dose of understanding and tolerance will be necessary and beneficial. Scorpion will unduly dominate his Cancer partner and will never appreciate his good qualities. Aggressive, boastful, he will impose his own infernal pace of life, extravagant tastes, superficial ideas. Cancer, caught up in this whirlwind, which is hardly suited to its nature, will soon feel tired, and will probably spend a good part of its time in health establishments.
The sexuality of the woman Cancer can only flourish if it is in emotional agreement with her partner, only if she feels loved and be the object of attention and tenderness. Her attachment to the paternal image is so strong that she is always looking, more or less unconsciously, for a solid shoulder, a protective arm. She is endowed with a capricious and changing eroticism. It can be an insatiable day, then the next day vaguely indifferent, according to the variations of its unstable moods. Hypersensitive to moods, the Cancer woman can also easily indulge without restraint when she is confident, only to block completely as soon as something is bothering or disturbing. It takes a lot of skill to lead to the total expression of his sexuality. The Cancer woman has an overflowing imagination. His fantasies are among the craziest with, sometimes, an incestuous coloring. However, she is far from being a sexual pervert; she only has this great ability to feel female to the tips of her nails when she is in perfect confidence with a partner.
If there was to be a perfect sexual partner, it would probably be closer to the Cancer man. It is full of tenderness, affection, romance, and also know-how. In his reports, he gives himself without reserve - with sincerity, innocence and passion. But one could blame him for preferring quantity to quality, because it is very pleasing to women, and they do not resist him. They will also attach themselves to this expert and indefatigable lover that he is. He is an inveterate slugger whose reputation is undeniable. However, to please the man Cancer in bed is difficult and requires a consummate art of seduction and eroticization. Since there is always something big about him, he wants his partners to be gentle, enveloping, reassuring and almost maternal. Besides, he will propose a thousand little games where he will be happy to pamper and pamper. His fantasies are a bit masochistic and he does not hate to be harshly bullied. In his sexual encounters, the Cancer man progresses slowly but surely from the stage of considerate lover and somewhat timid to that of alcove Rambo. And it is usually with gentle violence and healthy animality that ends what began as a fairy tale.
The Scorpion woman has one of the most powerful temperaments ever. But that does not mean that she likes to be satisfied with superficial relationships with anyone. Her absolute need is that, when she desires, she engages without restriction. Thus, while having strong impulses, she chooses her partners according to some very strict criteria, and the meetings of passage interest her little. There are some masochistic tendencies in her, of which she is most often only vaguely conscious. Often she can only reach the ultimate sensual pleasure if her partner physically hurts her one way or another - but within limits, of course. The Scorpio woman thinks she is more ungrateful and less desirable than she actually is. This is why in compensation, in her fantasies, she is often victim of rape. The explanation is obvious: if a man takes insane risks by forcing it, it is the proof that it is worth the "blow", that it is irresistible.
There is still in the Scorpion man an old background of machismo. It rarely fails to resurface in sexual encounters. But it is a kind machismo, closer to goodness and condescension than to malice and brutality. Anyway, it is appreciated by women who feel very female. Another trait of Scorpio's sexual behavior is the taste for risk. Danger acts as a powerful stimulant for his libido. Thus, it is not uncommon for him to make love in public toilets, in a telephone booth, or on a barely deserted beach, thus risking being discovered and punished. Needless to say, he totally ignores taboos. This love of risk causes the Scorpio man to diligently maintain the fantasy of rape. Although he can behave perfectly correctly in his real life, he is transformed, in his imaginary life, into a serial rapist several times sentenced to life imprisonment! Of course, this fantasy has some repercussions on her sexual behavior. However, these repercussions are not dangerous but, on the contrary, very exciting for its partners.